Yes. The community has clear conduct guidelines and active moderation. Zero tolerance for harassment, romantic solicitation, or anything that isn’t in keeping with the spirit of this house.

FAQs - Relative Choice

Q: How much does the community cost?

The first 200 Founding Family members join free. For life. Not in the first 200? No problem. Membership is just $5 a month. No long-term commitment. If you decide this house isn’t for you, you can leave anytime. At $5 a month, we think you’ll stay.

Q: Do I have to use my real name?

Only if you want to. We actually ask that you skip your last name entirely. This is a place to be family, and family has its own names. Choose something that feels right for who you are here. Cousin Layla. Favorite Uncle Joe. Boston Bro. Famous Piemaker. Gardening Mama. Grandad. Whatever fits. We’ll remember it.

Q: What if I'm introverted or anxious about joining?

This family accepts you exactly as you are. Join when you feel ready and however you feel comfortable. You can participate in activities without showing your face or saying a word. You can write in the forums and never join a live event. You can change your mind as many times as you need to. There is no right way to show up here. There is only your way.

Q: Who is Relative Choice™ for?

Anyone 18 or over who is missing family connections in their life - whether through loss, estrangement, distance, circumstance, or simply never having had those bonds to begin with. And equally, anyone who has love, time, and connection to offer. Both sides of that equation matter here.